Sylvia Plath
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Anne Waldman on Pennsound
http://writing.upenn.edu/pennsound/x/Waldman.php
Anne Waldman
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Monday, August 29, 2011
Feminism in my Childhood
In addition: Orpheus Plays The Bronx
Orpheus Plays The Bronx
When I was ten (no, younger
than that), my mother tried
to kill herself (without the facts
there can't be faith). One death
or another every day, Tanqueray bottles
halo the bed and she won't wake up
all weekend. In the myth book's color
illustration, the poet turns around
inside the mouth of hell to look at her
losing him (because it's not her fault
they had to meet there): so he can keep her
somewhere safe, save her place
till she comes back. Some say
she stepped on an asp, a handful of pills
littered the floor with their blues,
their red and yellow music. Al Green
was on the radio. (You were
at school, who's ever even seen
an asp?) It bruised her heel
purple and black. So death
could get some color to fill out
his skin, another bony white boy
jealous of all her laugh too loud, her
That's my song when Barry White
comes on. He's just got
to steal it, he can't resist
a bad pun, never never gonna give her
up, or back. The pictures don't prove
anything, but one thing I remember
about the myth's still true:
the man can't live if she does.
She survived to die for good.
I'm not a feminist, but...
Mostly because I have no idea what that means. Because of the strong connotations and ideas with the word, it's suggests something radical, passionate, and something that you should really know something about if you're going to take on this identity.
I’ve never really taken a class on the subject and I’ve never felt personally subjected to any serious oppression. To be honest, it hasn’t been very high on my list of woes. In the western world (or at least my western world), aside from an occasional catcall or vulgar hollers while walking down the street, the surface of daily life is pretty much unmarked. In general we can vote, we can work; we can wear really whatever we want and nothing is restricted to me as woman except for the sign on the Men's restroom. So yes, daily life is probably not awful for a white, middle-class woman. But then, there’s all the things hidden beneath the surface that is more difficult to notice-which the handout in class brought to light showing many facts that reveal that women are in fact still unequal.
I’ve Googled and Wikipidia-ed, finding many historical facts and theoretical definitions. However, I’m still uncertain of the why and what do we do? Why is this idea important, or more so than other?
After searching some general info about the topic of feminism, I still feel a little disconnected from the subject—Maybe because an objective point of view fails to give any solid definition. But isn’t this the exact problem bell hooks addresses? After reading hooks article, I found it very informative about the theoretical standpoint to feminism as well as the critique within it, but still it left a lot open to questions.
Why is it so difficult to define feminism? Why have women become the lesser sex but still vary so much in culture class and backgrounds? Yet they still need to ban together.
Ultimately, it comes down to the definition of equality—which can never really be concrete. What does this mean to a white, educated upper class woman compared to a working class minority woman to a woman in the Middle East?
…And then there are the women, who are perfectly content in their traditional roles.
As I was trying to google a little bit about feminism in general, this headline was particularly grabbing…if not amusing.
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evils%20in%20America/Feminism/feminism_is_evil.htm
The argument was hardly convincing, the evils of feminism supported mostly by Bible quotes. In this day and age, “because God says so”, is not held with the same authority as it once did. The site isn't very constructive or valid, but this just reveals another radical notion that is felt not even by men, but other women.
However, this made me wonder who is truly the enemy to the feminist movement—a movement aimed towards equality and positivity to the female gender. Is it these fiercely anti-feminists or is it the ones who fall by the wayside? Those who won’t associate with the idea of “feminism” because of the stigma attached. Those who are afraid to state any strong beliefs or feelings because of what the word “feminism” evokes. Thus, any hope in achieving a “feminist movement” may need to convince those in the middle, rather than those on the opposing side.
I advocate feminism.
Towards the end of bell hooks essay she tells how she has changed the way she expresses her relationship to feminism. Instead of indentifying herself as a feminist, she says “I advocate feminism.” She explains that “I advocate vs. I am does not participate in the either/or dualistic thinking that is the centered ideological component of all systems of domination.” I think this addresses the discussion we had at the beginning of class about people’s aversion to the term feminist. While seemingly people simply wish to avoid the negative connotations that come with the word, hooks alludes to a deeper ideological component that has come to taint the word enough to drive people not only from its usage, but from the political dimension of the movement to end sexist oppression (as hooks defines the goal of feminism). I would be interested in looking more deeply into how the “either/or dualistic” thinking has come to color the language of the feminist movement, and concomitantly how that has affected how the movement has thus far transpired. Perhaps this might lead me to a better understanding of the importance of poetry as a medium for breaking free from a lexicon born of the: “white supremacist, capitalist, patriarchal class structure,” that hooks points out as the forces that conspire to form the world the feminist movement currently engages.
“I am not Jasmine, I am Aladdin”—finding or losing the “we” of women
We touched on this briefly in class, but I’d like to discuss in more detail what I found to be one of the most interesting observations that Simone de Beauvoir makes in “The Second Sex,” and that is the “We”—or lack thereof”—of women. Beauvoir describes how men band together under the “we” of their sect—their race, their class, etc.—and by doing this they make their counterpart, “the bourgeois, the whites, into ‘others’.” She writes, “But women do not say ‘We,’ except at some congress of feminists or similar formal demonstration; men say ‘women’ and women use the same word in referring to themselves.” This observation, which I believe to be true, points to so many levels of the ingrained oppression of women. By not using “We”, women do not join together to make their oppressors the “other.” By not involving themselves in the “We” of women, women are, in fact, separating themselves from “woman”—they make “women”, of which they are one, into “other.”
One of the major problems that I notice within feminism is that it is hard for women to stop this “othering” of themselves, even when they are challenging the system of dominance of men over women. I think that it is common for women to desire and work to have the same rights and opportunities as men but sometimes, if we are not careful, this turns into a struggle to join the “We” of men. If the “we” is that of all humanity, then that is okay. But it does not help the feminist cause to say, “look, I am not like ‘them,’ I’m like you, so I deserve the same.”
This is all very theoretical, so here is an example that I find distressing.
Nowhere is the oppression and mistreatment of women more apparent than in rap music. In so many examples, women are objectified and disrespected to a shocking extreme.
But there are some women within hip hop who challenge this oppression. Here they run into a difficult problem. How does a woman step into a highly-masculinized role and subvert it without joining the other side?
Look at Nicki Minaj. Nicki is one of the few female MCs ever to not only release her own successful rap album. She also has appeared alongside some of the most prominent male artists in the industry. She does not sing some flighty chorus while these men rap around her about getting girls (many female artists do this). Nicki holds her own verses with equal (and perhaps greater) skill.
See her verse in Kanye’s Monster:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ona42jz8w0k
And yet, Nicki still falls into one of the greatest traps of taking on this role. She allows herself to join the men. In her song, “Roman’s Revenge,” Nicki takes on the identity of Roman—a man. She begins the song:
I am not Jasmine, I’m Aladdin
So far ahead, these bums is laggin’
See me in that new thing, bums is gaggin’
I’m startin’ to feel like a dungeon dragon
(to hear the song, see http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9h_I90M8-M)
I like Nicki Minaj. I think she challenges a hyper-masculine part of our culture. Yet I am disappointed that to do this she identifies as a man. She writes, “I am not Jasmine, I am Aladdin.” She is joining the male “we” instead of asserting both her femininity—and her fundamental humanness—as deserving of equal respect.
All of this goes to demonstrate that these observations that are made by the theorists that we study are real and true. It is amazing to me that what Beauvoir noticed in 1949 is still true of pop culture today. What I admire about poetry, about Sylvia Plath, Haryette Mullen, and others, is that they assert, often through exploration, what it means to be a woman. They do not try to escape. They build up the “We” of womanhood. I wish this were true of rap, reality T.V. and the rest of mainstream pop culture.
But I want to be loved because I am. That's all.
In Being Female, Myles gives her opinion on where she believes women fit in the writing and publishing world and why this is.
Here is the link to the full essay: http://www.theawl.com/2011/02/being-female
Some excerpts I found interesting:
"So I try to conjure that for myself particularly when I’m writing or saying something that seems both vulnerable and important so I don’t have to be defending myself so hard. I try and act like its mine. The culture. That I’m its beloved son. It’s not an impossible conceit. But it’s hard. Because a woman, reflexively, often feels unloved"
Here, Myles describes how she builds up the courage to present her work/speak in front of audiences. She thinks of men she admires deeply (like Paolo Pasolini) and wonders how they were able to do such amazing things in the midst of so much hate being put upon them. Myles believes men like Pasolini were able to prevail because they were loved. Therefore, Myles achieves her public speaking courage from influential men because culturally they are always loved. She becomes an embodiment of a man in this way.
"Speaking frankly as a lesbian I have to say that the salient fact about the danger zone I call home is the persistent experience of witnessing the quick revulsion of people who believe that because I love women I am a bottom feeder. I am desperately running towards what anyone in their right mind would be running away from. Which is femaleness, which is failure. And one does after all want to be read as a man. As a man who is a woman perhaps. Can’t we just all be men and some have these genitals and some have those"
This excerpt is more self-explanatory. Myles makes the point that to be a woman means to be less valuable, especially in terms of publishing. In Being Female, Myles displays the same pie chart we all received on the first day of class, which displayed authors reviewed in 2010 by the New York Times. Men exceeding women reviews by almost double. By removing women from the "public reflection" to Myles is to say, "she doesn't know or I don't care if she thinks she knows." This removal as a result of "femaleness" is failure to Myles, therefore she rejects it and chooses to be read like "a man who is a woman." She carries herself with this same mentality and it is made obvious in the excerpt below.
An excerpt from Inferno: (178)
A thing that was always so difficult about feminism was that it didn’t contain a boy. Nobody wanted to deal with that part, so I just always felt dirty and poor. A boy was my secret part, so where should I put that? Even if I was a feminist I would still have a evil secret baby. Myself. I wrote a poem called Misogyny. Not for the book, I mean I had it hanging around so I sent it to them. It expressed my confusion. It was punk. Misogyny got rejected. I was destroyed. How would I ever get to be female. What was I? (178)
Again Myles brings up the idea of "a man who is a woman" presented in her essay, Being Female. It is hard for Myles to be a feminist because it did not include the male parts of her that helped her survive as a female. Myles' way of dealing with femininity and being female is though her "secret part" of boy. She can never see herself as female if she is not allowed to embrace the boy contained within her.
Being Female and Inferno were interesting to me because what Myles is essentially doing is rejecting parts of feminism like embracing her womanhood in order to become more of a feminist, which is to be different and to fight against those who believe women are not as legitimate as men. This approach interests me because Myles often comments on how without her "evil secret baby" she is just dirty and poor. This makes sense because she grew up during the time of second wave feminism and we know from reading the The Second Sex in class that working class and uneducated individuals were sort of "othered" from this movement and Myles puts herself into this category (and is seen in much of her writing).
So, my question to the class is do you think Myles is promoting inequality between men and women or helping feminism progress in a positive direction?
'The Feminine Mystique' Review, from the nytimes, April 7, 1963
Sounds of Sylvia
More Plath stuff
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Anne Sexton at Home
Anne Sexton