Yet the movie has a heart. It heals some wounds, restores some hurt feelings, confesses some secrets, and in general, ends happily, which is just as well, because although there are many things audiences will accept from women in a comedy, ending miserably is not one of them. That may be sexist, but there you are.
Sylvia Plath
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Today's class follow up
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Monday, September 26, 2011
The Relevant Medusa
Besides, you’ve written a little, but in secret. And it wasn’t good, because it was in secret, and because you punished yourself for writing, because you didn’t go all the way; or because you wrote, ir- resistibly, as when we would masturbate in secret, not to go further, but to attenuate the tension a bit, just enough to take the edge off. And then as soon as we come, we go and make ourselves feel guilty – so as to be forgiven; or to forget, to bury it until the next time.
A close friend of mind also explained to me how she felt that the purpose of woman is fundamentally to do things for others, rather than to enjoy what it is she is doing. The concept of the masturbation and the idea of guilt and what is acceptable in those realms of our society reminded me(strangely) of the film industry. A perfect example is the recent release of the movie Bridesmaids. Essentially, this movie is the women's version of the movie the Hangover, and a resounding majority of my friends enjoyed the Hangover more than Bridesmaids. Just to be more statistically correct, I checked rotten tomatoes review as well, and while 80% voted they enjoyed Bridesmaids, 87% voted that they enjoyed the Hangover. This concept of dirty humor and what is acceptable for the woman still remains in our society years after these theorists and feminists wrote about it. Women are supposed to feel uncomfortable in the presence of crude humor-it's a guy thing. Even Roger Ebert thinks so: